Downsizing your home can be a big process. And, less and less people seem to be doing it these days.
The average home size in 1950 was less than 1,000 square feet. Fast forward to now, the average home size has increased to nearly 2,600 square feet, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.
We were fairly close to this size when we owned a house. The house we owned in the St. Louis, Missouri area was around 2,500 square feet if you included our finished basement, and it was just for myself, my husband, and our two dogs. Our home in Colorado was almost as big, at slightly over 2,000 square feet (with no basement).
More and more people seem to be purchasing large homes, but that’s not the case for us. We sold our home last year and moved into an RV.
We made this decision for many reasons, but the main reason was that traveling nearly full-time added to the stress of owning a home. So, we figured why not just take it a step further and actually travel full-time?
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So, we did it. We went through all of our possessions, stored certain belongings that we couldn’t part with (we have a VERY small storage unit, the size of a closet, filled mainly with hundreds of photo albums that my dad left me after he passed away, family paintings, childhood mementos, etc.), and moved into our RV.
It wasn’t the easiest task on earth, and really we dreaded all of the work that had to be done. However, we knew it was well worth it to live the life we wanted.
And, it was! We are so glad that we decided to downsize our home. We haven’t regretted the decision one bit, and now we are happier than ever.
There are many other reasons for downsizing your home:
- To save money. A bigger home can cost more in some cases due to higher utility bills, more clutter being bought, higher insurance, more maintenance and repairs needed, higher purchasing price, etc.
- To have less clutter. The bigger your home, the more likely you’ll have empty rooms that you feel the need to put stuff in. Now that we live in an RV, we are much more mindful of what we buy. We think about every purchase in terms of weight, size, where we can store it, and more.
- To spend less time on maintenance and repairs. If all other factors between two homes are the same (age, location, etc.), a bigger home is more likely to take up more of your time due to more things breaking.
- To spend less time cleaning. A larger home is going to take a lot more time to clean than a smaller one.
Whatever your reason may be for downsizing your home, here are my tips. Of course, certain downsizes may be easier than others, but overall the tips below can help you sort through your items.
Tips for downsizing your home:
Make a plan for downsizing your home.
Downsizing your home can seem like an easy task to some, but in reality it is not. There are many things that go into downsizing your home, such as:
- The layout and amount of space in your new home.
- The time you have to downsize your home can impact your sorting process, stress, etc.
- How you will donate, sell, or throw away items to get rid of.
- How and what you determine to keep, donate, or throw away.
What do you think you just cannot get rid of?
To start off, you should make a list of all the items you believe you just cannot part with. Your list may start out long, but it will help you decide what items you don’t need and should get rid of.
What can you easily get rid of?
If you have the time, then you may want to start getting rid of things that you know you don’t need as soon as you can. By doing this, you can clear a lot of clutter and it will also help you realize that you may not need other items you once thought you needed.
Usually getting rid of the first few items is the hardest. After that, it gets easier to downsize your home!
Think about why you want to keep certain items.
Many people have a hard time parting with things for reasons such as:
- Memories
- How much money they spent on it
- The length of time that they’ve held onto it
- The potential for future use
If you just don’t have the room in your new home, you should really dig deep and figure out why you believe you need to keep so many items. Talk about your reasoning with your family or out loud to fully grasp it. Doing so may help you realize how ridiculous your logic may be.
Sometimes, you may laugh at your reasoning, and this may help you get rid of an item more easily.
Find ways to store documents digitally.
For me, I just couldn’t bring myself to store my dad’s photo albums digitally, even though numerous people have told me to scan them and throw them away. The memory is in the actual photo albums as well as the photos, as my dad loved photography and we would often put the photo albums together as a fun project.
However, there are many other non sentimental things that you can store digitally. This includes tax information, receipts, paper documents, and so on.
The average person has thousands of papers that they store!
Paper is a big reason for clutter, and so many people keep items that they don’t need. Go through your documents and start either digitally storing them or recycling them.
We kept just one binder of papers and scanned the rest. It was very easy to do, and getting rid of all of that paper felt amazing.
Give yourself time.
Going through your whole house and downsizing your home in one day would be quite difficult and stressful. Instead, you should give yourself time to really think about what you do and don’t need.
This means that you may want to take a few days, weeks, or even months to go through your home.
Start off room by room and see what you can get rid of. Then, when you are done doing that, go through everything again and again until you are down to the amount of items you need to have. By doing this process, you will clearly see what you need and do not need, because you will be able to see how much you have, evaluate items more clearly, apply past reasoning to other items you think you can’t get rid of, and so on.
Create a donation list.
Donating items makes getting rid of things and downsizing your home a little easier. By knowing that your items will be better used by someone who actually needs them, you are giving your stuff new life! If you have a large amount to donate, many donation centers will even come to your home, which can make getting rid of items a breeze.
Plus, you’ll feel great about it.
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Think about when the last time was that you used an item.
Many people keep items that they hardly use or have never used, yet keep and store them anyways.
If you want to start downsizing your home, you should think about the last time you used a specific item.
For me, this is a big reason for why it was so easy to get rid of so many things. I just sat down, created a list, and thought about the last time I used a certain item. For many things, it seemed like years had passed since I had actually used that item. For some things, I knew I didn’t actually need to use them when I thought I did.
So, you should do the same. Think about when you last used an item, if you will ever use it in the future, if you’re better off just renting or borrowing something you occasionally use, and so on.
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Get rid of the “maybes.”
If you have no space for items in your new home, but you still have a huge pile of things that you want to take with you, you may want to think about just completely getting rid of your “maybe” pile.
After all, these are “maybes” and you probably don’t want them as badly as you think! This can make downsizing your home much easier in one swoop of a decision.
Carefully evaluate future purchases.
So that you are less likely to have as much clutter in the future, you should evaluate future items before you buy them.
You should think long and hard about whether you truly need something, whether you should buy, borrow, or rent it if you won’t need it in the future, and think about where the item will be stored in your home.
We do this now that we live in an RV. We think about every purchase in terms of weight, size, where we can store it, and more. This has helped prevent us from buying many items because we know it’s not realistic to bring everything into an RV.
How big is your home? Is downsizing your home something you are interested in?
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Great suggestions Michelle!
I’m not really looking to downsize as I’m already living in a two bedroom cottage, but what’s worked best for me in the past is asking the question: if my house burned to the ground, would I want to replace this [whatever it is]?
I asked myself that question a lot when I was trying to reduce my contents insurance. Turns out, there are very few things I’d actively replace if my house burned down (which I hope it never does!).
I don’t understand the desire for a large home, the cleaning alone puts me off!
Happy RVing!
That is a great question to ask yourself!
the first comment resonated with me – I used to ask “if I moved tomorrow, would this come along” which can be misleading – I replaced it with “would I replace it if the house burned down” which makes it a lot easier to decide
Yes, I agree!
I currently live in a large one bedroom apartment. You are definitely right that more space means more clutter and more time cleaning. There are pros and cons to living in a big space. For example, living in a bigger space makes it easier to host guests. I think both a small space and a large space would work for most people. Living in a bigger space just comes with sacrifices.
Yes!
We haven’t wanted to downsize since we’ve been growing our family, but I think some of this applies to anyone. Your tip to get rid of the maybe pile is really good. I struggle with this one, especially as it relates to my kids’ toys and other things that aren’t just for me. But I really don’t miss any of the things I’ve gotten rid of in the past, and I’m sure the same is true of the maybe pile.
Yes, definitely!
I think it’s great you have downsized your life. It’s amazing how much crap we have that we don’t really need!
Thanks! It’s great 🙂
Great suggestions Michelle! It would be so awesome to downsize, but it would also be so hard to give up a home base. Something I’ve been thinking about is building a tiny house. Perhaps if I built it myself, it would be easier to give up the luxury of living in a full-sized house!
Thanks!
We recently started doing a 30 day challenge to de-clutter our house, ends up with removing over 450 items from your house.
The sad part – it probably won’t be that difficult.
Awesome! How much have you removed so far?
Great Suggestion, Michelle! 🙂 Storing documents digitally is a great way to de-clutter a house! I am going to try that this weekend because I have a TON of documents (papers) stored around my house!
Thanks!
I have the opposite problem. We are outgrowing out 2-bedroom apartment and need a bigger place. I still need to get rid of a ton of clutter though constantly in order to make it comfortable and it helps a lot because there’s less to clean/organize.
Do you plan on getting something bigger soon?
That’s the issue because at first I didn’t mind the thought of staying where we’re at for a few more years which would be the reality if I left my job to freelance this summer (my original plan) but then I realize if I stick around for a bit we can purchase a starter house and I won’t have to jump through hoops to get a mortgage. I would rather not rent a house because it’s too high in my area. Either way, I’m sure we’d be happy but it’s a pressing decision that’s been on my mind for a bit.
You’re still doing both?! Girl, I don’t know how you do it all!
As empty nesters we downsized from a house on 5 acres in the country to a duplex in town. We got rid of a ton of stuff. Then we decided we had downsized too much in terms of living space – not land space – and proceeded to build the biggest house we’ve ever owned. It is really easier to keep it organized and uncluttered due to having plenty of closet space etc. but it definitely takes longer to clean.
Interesting! How big is your new place?
4200 square feet.
This is a lot easier for anyone who is a natural “purger”. I am one of those people! In law school and undergrad I moved so much that I purged a lot. Now, I am always organized, giving stuff away, and maintaining a minimalist home lifestyle. I can’t imagine downsizing from a 700 sq ft apt, but you never know!! haha
Haha great job!
Oh man you are amazing for accomplishing this! Great work. With our growing family I’m not sure this would be an option for us at the moment. We definitely will downsize in retirement though. Is it time to install solar panels now?!
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We definitely want solar soon!
Great article, Michelle! I had a three year plan. 1) Sell the three bedroom house and move into a two bedroom apartment for two years – that cleared A LOT of stuff out. 2) Move from the two bedroom apartment into the RV after the second year – again, cleared A LOT of stuff out. During this time, I digitalized papers and photos, and donated/yard saled/mission boxed so much that I would not need. 3) Moved into my conversion van and boondocked in the same area at my son’s house while I got used to the full time RV’ing lifestyle but kept my day job for the last 6 months.4) Now in the final months before leaving full time job and ready to go…waiting for September so I have a bit of an emergency fund and the vehicle is in tip-top shape. This long-term plan worked for me as I am 60 and had 5 kids, so there was a HUGE change from my former lifestyle to the RV lifestyle.
So awesome!
Where are you going first? 🙂
Another post that hits close to home!
Last year we moved for my husband’s job and downsized in the process. Mainly so I could stay home with the kids and start my own venture. 🙂 We took a lot to good will and asked ourselves those questions – how long has it been since we’ve used this? We did sell some things we thought were a little more valuable.
So awesome that you live in an RV full time. We often think about what it would be like if we retired in this house. Think of how much money we could save!
Have a good Monday. 🙂
Awesome! We got rid of so much stuff in the last move and it felt great!
What an accomplishment! I am sure you do not miss all the cleaning and other chores that come with a home. I still live in college housing as I finish up my MBA but learning what to leave behind is harder than you think! I usually find that giving away clothes and items I no longer use to charity is a noble cause, just as you did. Must say living in an RV must be very fun as you can travel anywhere! Will give you great memories, all the best.
Thank you!