6 Important Questions To Ask Yourself Before Buying A Home

The spring and summer months are usually the most popular months for buying a house. And, buying a house is probably the largest purchase a person will ever make. According to Zillow, the median U.S. home value is $195,300 and the median price of homes currently listed is $234,900. Nearly everyone says that a house…

Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

Last Updated: January 22, 2025

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The spring and summer months are usually the most popular months for buying a house. And, buying a house is probably the largest purchase a person will ever make.

According to Zillow, the median U.S. home value is $195,300 and the median price of homes currently listed is $234,900.

Nearly everyone says that a house is a good investment. Many people will even go as far to say that doing anything other than owning a house would be a complete waste of money.

However, I don’t agree with that at all.

Buying a house isn’t for everyone. You shouldn’t jump at the opportunity to buy a house, especially any ol’ house. And, you should think about all of the factors before deciding that buying a house is the best and only decision for you.

Deciding to buy a house is a huge commitment, and problems may arise if you don’t fully think about how this big purchase will affect your life.

There are many questions to ask yourself before you buy a house, and not everyone will have the same answers. This is why it’s important to analyze your situation first.

Whether you are a first time home buyer or if this is your second or third house (or more!), you should still ask yourself these questions.

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Everyone has felt that dreadful feeling that comes after making a large purchase and realizing that you have made a mistake. Perhaps you don’t realize for months or years later, but you eventually understand what a waste of money the purchase was.

And, no one wants to feel this way after buying a house!

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What to ask yourself before buying a house.

Can you afford it?

Before you ask yourself any other questions about buying a house, you should most definitely make sure that affordability is a top priority.

If you can’t afford it, then you should not be buying that house.

It’s really that simple.

You will want to look at your overall financial situation and analyze:

  • How much you make.
  • Your job stability.
  • How much you have saved.
  • Your credit history.
  • The total monthly amount you feel comfortable paying for a home. Make sure you look at all the costs involved!
  • Your total amount of debt.

When buying a house, it takes analyzing all of these factors to realize what you can truly afford.

Many people try to justify a buying a house that is over their budget, but that is a horrible idea. Banks will usually pre-approve you for a mortgage payment that is higher than what you can actually afford. So, it’s a bad idea to go over that number or even beyond one that you are comfortable with.

AND, you should not just take what the bank pre-approves you for as the amount that you can actually afford. Like I said, banks tend to pre-approve for more, so that number is not a good gauge of what you can afford.

When determining what you can afford, you will want to think about ALL of the costs that come with buying a house and living in it. This means that your research should not end with the purchase price of the house – it actually goes way past that, as discussed in a later section.

Why do you want THIS house?

Buying house can lead to a crazy amount of new feelings – happiness, stress, excitement, and more. This can sometimes make every house you look at seem like the perfect one, and that’s because they all seem so new and exciting.

Before you put an offer on a house, you should think about the reasons for why you want a specific house. This is one of the first steps to finding a house that’s right for you, as this can make sure you are getting exactly what you want and need, rather than just being happy with any home.

I recommend creating a wish list that includes all of the things you want in a home. Your wish list could include things like::

  • Whether you want to be in the country or the city.
  • If you want a fenced in yard.
  • How many bedrooms and bathrooms you need.
  • The age of the home.
  • The quality of the schools.
  • The size of the kitchen.
  • Your budget, and this one is extremely important!

And, you’ll also want to create a list of things that you want to stay away from, such as if you don’t want a place with a pool, a home with a lot of yard maintenance, a home that is a fixer upper, and so on.

By having this wish list on hand, you’ll know exactly what you should be looking at, and what you should avoid.

What other costs do you need to factor in?

When you find a house that you think is right for you, you need to make sure that you can afford ALL of the costs that come with that house.

Just because you can pay the monthly house payment doesn’t mean that you can afford everything else that goes with it. There are ongoing costs when buying a house, which is something that many homebuyers forget about.

In fact, U.S. homeowners, on average, spend more than $9,000 per year in hidden homeownership costs and maintenance expenses cost homeowners an average of $6,042 per year in unavoidable hidden costs. These include things like homeowners insurance, property taxes, and utilities.

Before making a home purchase, you should think about how much this house will cost you in the long run. There are many ways to think of this, such as:

  • Property taxes- These vary widely from town to town. You may find yourself looking at two similar houses with similar price tags, but the property taxes may vary by thousands of dollars annually. That is a LOT of money. While it may seem small when compared to the actual home purchase price, remember that you have to pay property taxes annually, and a difference of just $3,600 a year is $300 a month for life.
  • Gas– Many homes use gas to run the hot water heater, the stove, and so on.
  • Electricity– Generally, the bigger your home, the higher your electricity bill.
  • Sewer–  This isn’t super expensive, but it is generally around $30 a month.
  • Trash–  This isn’t super expensive either, but it does cost money.
  • Water (and possibly irrigation)-  Depending on how you use water and where you live, water bills can vary widely. I know many who live in areas where the average water bill is a few hundred dollars each month.
  • Home insurance- Home insurance can be cheap in some areas but crazy expensive in others. Don’t forget to look into the cost of earthquake, flood, and hurricane insurance, and know that it can add up quickly depending on where you live.
  • Maintenance and repairs- No matter how old your home is (even brand new homes), repair and maintenance costs will eventually come into play. In fact, U.S. homeowners pay an average of $3,435 per year in annual optional costs, including house cleaning, yard care, gutter cleaning, carpet cleaning, and pressure washing. But, don’t forget about things like needing a new roof or other repairs that may come up!
  • Homeowners association fees- This can also vary widely. You should always see if the house you are interested in is part of an HOA. Often, the fees are high and involve rules you may not like.
  • Home furnishings- Furnishing your home can be done cheaply, but I know some who buy huge homes and can’t afford to put anything in them, such as a table, a bed, and so on. Why own a $500,000 house if you don’t have any furniture?

Always remember to add up the total cost when deciding to buy a house!

How long do you plan to live in the area?

It usually takes around 5 years to recoup the costs you paid to purchase a house. If you only live in a house for one or two years, then you may lose money on closing costs, because of the volatility of the real estate market, and more. Plus, it usually takes some time and legwork to buy a house, so you may not want to do it again so soon.

Due to this, you’ll want to think about how long you’ll be living in the area.

You’ll want to make sure that the house will be suitable for you for at least 5 years, so you’ll want to think about things such as:

  • Are you happy with the area?
  • How are the schools?
  • Is the house big enough if you plan on starting a family?
  • Do you plan on working in the area for at least 5 years?

And so on.

You really need to think about your future when deciding to buy a house.

Can buying a house wait 24 hours?

I know it’s tempting to jump on a house when you find it, but if the purchase can wait 24 hours, then you may want to delay it. This will allow you more time to think about the purchase, go over your budget again, let any butterflies you have about the home purchase go away, and so on.

You will be able to make a much more rational decision if you think about it for at least 24 hours.

Plus, for all you know, you may even realize that you don’t want the house at all!

Yes, I realize that some houses will sell rather quickly, but when you think you have a limited time frame, it can sometimes cause you to make a rush decision that isn’t good for you.

If you can, take 24 hours to make sure this house is right for you.

Do you really need/want this house?

Finally, the last question you should ask yourself is whether or not you actually need the house. It sounds easy enough, but many people do not even think about asking this question. When in fact, it is one of the most important questions to ask when buying a house (or any large purchase for that matter).

Really dig deep and ask yourself this simple question. Sure, you might think you want the house, but have you also been able to answer all of these other questions positively?

Buying a house is huge investment, and it deserves a lot of time and thought to make the best decision.

What other questions should a person ask themselves when buying a house?


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  1. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

    Thank you!

  2. Michelle Schroeder-Gardner

    Thanks!

  3. Really Make Cents

    Great things to consider when purchasing a home. I recently just purchased my first home and I definitely thought long and hard about whether it was the right thing to do. The additional costs of having to repair everything yourself rather than just having your landlord fix them can add up quickly. I don’t think you should think of your primary home as an investment, but as your sanctuary.

  4. Leah | A Relaxed Gal

    I agree with everything on this list. I bought a house last summer and ended up buying a brand new house that was under my budget. It seems many people tend to go over budget for various reasons when buying a house. I think the HGTV phenomenon has contributed to this as you tend to see people on many of those shows go over their budget like it’s nothing.

    I opted to buy a house because where I live rents for 1 bedroom apartments in nice neighborhoods keep rising, plus I was paying extra for most of the utilities. The mortgage (which includes insurance and taxes), HOA and utilities for my 4 bedroom house are equal to the rent + utilities I was paying for a 1 bedroom apartment!

  5. Cameron

    So many great points here. Maintenance and remodeling costs have been a huge pain for us in our first home. We love the home and knew there would be some small renovations needed which was fine.

    Our inspector did a very poor job and now we are needing some foundation work, siding work, and roof work all because of a poor inspector. These added costs are really killing our budget now but in the end we will be better off. The good thing is we intend to stay in the house for a long time and we have a nice amount of equity in the home.

    Home buying can be fun if you follow the above steps, take your time to find the perfect house, it is out there and you will find it eventually! Never a need to rush into something because you feel like you have to. Great article!

  6. Travis

    Great questions to ask yourself.

    Another question to ask…is this house really in good shape? I have seen friends purchase a house w/out getting a home inspection and then have to put thousands into fixing things. Make sure you get a home inspection…it’s worth the $500. If you can’t afford the $500 then you shouldn’t buy the house!!!!

  7. Kitty Thomson

    Last time when i buy a small house for my family. i was glad but they told me about the hidden cost i was disappoint. but i manage its all in my budget.

  8. Oliver @ Appreneurinvestor.com

    Many people don’t have knowledge about buying a house and drain their money in very bad way. Buying a house is a big deal and you need to have perfect knowledge about different steps involve in this activity. Well, you guide the beginners and those who don’t have enough knowledge about buying a house, in relatively appreciative way. Thanks for all your guidelines.

  9. Dividend Diplomats

    Yep – I can sympathize with each one. MY wife and I carefully discussed each one of these questions before we just purchased our first home. Would strongly recommend this listing to any homebuyer and it is a detailed, thoughtful list of all things to ask yourself before beginning the process.

    Thanks for the great read!

    Bert

  10. Marshall

    I think one of the most import factors is how long you place on staying in the area. You have to live somewhere, and if your planning on staying in the area for more then 5-7 years then I think buying a home is a good investment, if you can afford it. The principle portion of your monthly payment is basically like saving account over the long run.

  11. CreditZeal.com

    We purchased our first home earlier this year and it was the best decision we’ve made. After years of renting we finally decided to take the plunge and just do it. We’ve seen a good increase in our equity within only 6 months of purchasing and we’re not paying someone else’s mortgage too. I’ve always viewed renting as dead money – you might as well be paying down your own mortgage and enjoying the benefits of having your own home.

  12. Ridley Fitzgerald

    I love your advice for buying a home. My wife and I both think it’s time to get a home, but it’s good for us to double-check, just to be sure. Thanks for the list of costs associated with owning a home; we hadn’t factored in trash and sewer costs. We’ll work that into our budget!

  13. CreditZeal.com

    It was only last year when we purchased our first home which was a foreclosure. We got a great deal on the home but my partner was pretty nervous about it. It seems like it has all worked out okay and I would happy do it again.

  14. Steven Mills

    These questions also apply to those who are looking for apartment in the city. Most of the problem of renters are the noise from the street and the noisy neighbors living beside. Many thanks for the handful tips, Michelle.

  15. Allyson

    This is a great list to start the thinking process. As a financial counselor, I all too often see young people tell me their only reason for purchasing is so they aren’t “throwing away their rent money”. This is NOT a good reason to buy.